2 main points on why I give a low rating overall. 1. The app is impossible to make connections on unless you pay for premium which is $30 a month. Insanely overpriced. 2. Even if you decide to pay the money (which I have done twice), you will be contacted by dangerous scam accounts posing as women. I have spent the year on various dating apps. I’ve never had a problem with fake accounts on Hinge. I’ve had at least 7 first dates from Hinge. Everyone was who they said they were. Scam accounts have basically been nonexistent. I’ve spent much less time on Her and have already been contacted by 5 scam accounts (that I know of). Just be careful if you try using this app. I did have one meaningful connection when I paid for the app and they were who they said they were. So it is possible! Take extra precautions to verify the person is real. I typically ask for Snapchat and that tends to scare away the catfish (or make them angry). Either way I can figure out they’re not real. One more thing, the community message boards are absolutely filled with nudes and fake messages asking to hook up or send pics. It’s like the Wild West out there. Overall, making a connection IS possible IF YOU PAY an exorbitant amount. Her should charge a reasonable price like other dating apps. You WILL encounter scams. Be prepared and be cautious.

OK I feel as though this app is a little bit too strict. We are all adults here. If we make a mistake or if you break a community guidelines OK flag is fair but give us a few chances because things can be flagged that shouldn’t be flagged and are flagged just because someone is mad instead of doing a proper investigation to have to beg for my account to be off hold is a bit ridiculous especially when you are part of a community that you felt. It was safe to discuss certain things. I don’t think the subscription is worth it due to the fact they are constantly looking for a way to put your account on hold, when your account is on hold, you cannot use the app. This also breaks any bun that you have established while your account is on hold. I do not feel like it is fair to flag. Every little thing. We are adults! There will be times where we will make a mistakes. We should not be harshly panelized. I feel like this is new to all of us when it comes to community guidelines I think that really no one really looks throughly at it and there should not be a penalty right off the back for it. There should be a email sent to the person that lets them know that they violated a community guideline, in other words I do feel like I met great people. I just think that guidelines should be adjusted. We are all humans and we make mistakes. Please adjust this.

Well, this is actually the first time I am opening myself up and this app seems I could be perfect for me. It is a little too expensive, but I’m gonna try it out for a month and see how it goes. It’s super easy to set up but I wish it was cheaper and a little bit easier to move throughout the website but other than that I’m happy so far. Update: Wow I’m actually even more impressed with HER. I’ve never had a developer take the time to write something on any of my reviews whether it’s been positive or negative. What does HER do? Not only read my review but took the time to send me a thank you note! Now that may seem insignificant to some but for me positivity isn’t something I’m around all that much. Reason #8,000 why I’m on a dating site😂So when I hear it I do my best to acknowledge it and send positive words back. It would be great if I met someone through HER but even if I don’t, I’d still refer HER to anyone looking for an open minded genuine love friendship and even just people to talk to. Thank you HER for making me feel noticed and putting a smile on my face! 💛